HABANERO
INSIGHTS
Do you feel like you are living a lie.
For Men Needing clarity about life
and Relationships
For Men Facing the Weight of Life
Are you tired of holding it all together and feeling lost inside.
Is holding it in, holding you back from life.
Navigating relationships
Intimacy & desire
When you’re in a relationship—and stuck between staying and leaving
Sex - Love - or Confusion
Sex isn’t the problem. The lies around it are.
About Me
I created Habanero Insights
because most men don’t have anyone who will help them see clearly — without agenda, or distortion.I have three sons, and most of my closest friends are men.
For the majority of my life I have observed and experienced the destruction of human beings caught in the traps of unhealthy relationships, governed by erroneous social constructs and expectations.I have a wealth of life experience and knowledge which I have used, to help many friends cut through the bullshit and change direction fast, before their lives and others are permanently damaged.If something in your life or relationship isn’t working, and you’re ready to stop pretending it is, that’s where we begin.In our sessions, I help you to see the truth behind the stories you’ve been living by.My aim is for you to make actionable decisions today with no upsells or keeping you as a client. You rebook only if you want to.
Everything starts and ends with you
ROOT KILL
STRIPPING THE LIE AT THE SOURCE
Every session is direct and focused. We strip away excuses and false stories, get to the truth fast, leaving you knowing exactly what to do next—without guilt or second‑guessing.
GUILT, OBLIGATION & EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL
You feel like the bad guy for wanting out.You’re being manipulated — through guilt, love, through the story that you “owe” someone your life.This is where you get your perspective back, and stop being handled.
All clarity sessions are for adults 18+.
FEELING TRAPPED BUT UNABLE TO LEAVE
You know you should leave—but fear, guilt, or uncertainty keeps you stuck. This session helps you face what’s really holding you there, so you can finally act.”
All clarity sessions are for adults 18+.
FAST TRACK EXIT – FOR MEN ALREADY HALFWAY OUT
You’ve already left — emotionally, mentally and sexually,
but you’re still physically there.You you don’t know how to end it without fallout.This session helps you get clear and move forward without dragging it out.
All clarity sessions are for adults 18+.
PRESSURED INTO MARRIAGE, BABIES, OR A LIFE YOU NEVER CHOSE
Are you being pressured into Marriage, Babies, or a Life You Never ChoseAre you being pushed to settle down—marry her, have kids, or commit to a life path you know isn’t right for you?Maybe your family expects it. Maybe she’s made it clear that time is running out.Deep down, you know this isn’t the life you want, but guilt, fear, or pressure makes it hard to say no.This session helps you stand firm before you take a step you can’t undo—so you can choose freely instead of being trapped by expectation.
All clarity sessions are for adults 18+.
For Men Facing the Weight of Life
• Feeling lost or stuck
• Rebuilding after breakdowns
• Identity, purpose, and meaning
• Power dynamics with family, friends, or work
• Self-worth beyond social roles
• Knowing when to walk away
• Letting go of false paths
Most men were never taught how to speak what matters ,only how to hold it together, but silence doesn’t make it disappear.
It just turns into tension, distance, or damage.
This isn’t about therapy or fixing you. It’s about getting real enough to move forward — on your terms.
All clarity sessions are for adults 18+.
Navigating Relationships Intimacy & Desire
• You’re in a relationship—but you’re not happy in it
• Maybe there’s no sex. Maybe you’re walking on eggshells.
• Maybe one or both of you has checked out completely
• You’ve tried being patient. Being the good man. Being what she said she wanted
• Now you’re stuck between guilt, confusion, and thinking, I can’t do this anymore
•Wanting connection but feel trapped when it turns into pressure, neediness or control.
•Maybe it’s the other way around—you want to stay, but she’s already out.This session helps you face that reality, see your options clearly, and decide how to move forward with dignity and self‑respect.”
You don’t need advice. You need clarity
All clarity sessions are for adults 18+.
Most men were never shown how to handle intimacy without losing themselves. They were told to give more, stay calm, push through.
But that doesn’t work. You end up staying out of duty. That kind of loyalty costs more than most men realise. No more suffering in silence.
Relational burnout. Guilt. Lack of sex, pressure to be someone you’re not and to be with someone you don’t want to.
Sex - Love - or Confusion
• You want sex,but somehow, it’s become complicated in your relationship.
• You’re told it’s wrong to want too much an that you are immature or dirty.
• Desire gets used against you, and love starts to feel like a trap.
You were told to chase her. Told to want it. Told to earn it
• Then punished for wanting it. Judged for being honest about it
• If you’re done second-guessing yourself, this is where we strip it back.
This session helps you untangle whether you’re in love, just attached, or simply craving desire and what to do with the answer.
All clarity sessions are for adults 18+.
For Men Facing the Weight of Life
Foundational Reset
For the man who needs one clear insight to move again.
£77
Clarity Beyond Guilt
Deconstruct the internal pressure patterns and return to clarity.
£144
Stability Rebuild
This is for the man rebuilding after collapse—untangling social constructs, belief restructuring, inner architecture repair.
£222
All clarity sessions are for adults 18+.
Navigating Intimacy & Desire
Recalibration
For the man who doesn’t know how to say what’s wrong—but knows something’s not right.
£77
Clarity Beyond Guilt
Untangle shame, obligation, and silent resentment. Find your real boundary and voice.
£144
Desire Realignment
For men in relationship spirals. Realign needs, signals, and sovereign clarity—without drama.
£222
All clarity sessions are for adults 18+.
Sex - Love - or Confusion
Attachment Deconstruction
Decode the internal scripts keeping you in chaos—emotional and sexual.
£144
Full Recoding Session
Rewire the story you’ve been trapped in—love, worth, and longing get reset.
£222
All clarity sessions are for adults 18+
PRIVATE CLARITY SESSIONS
Quick Clarity Session
Get straight to the core issue and leave with a clear next move.
£160
Deep Work Session
We dismantle the structures holding you back and rebuild a path forward.
£300
One session is often all you need.
Book again only if you want to go deeper or if new challenges come up
All clarity sessions are for adults 18+
PRIVATE CLARITY SESSIONS
One clean strike through looping desire/doubt.
£77
Reset & Reframe Session
Decode the internal scripts keeping you in chaos—emotional and sexual.
£144
Deep Work Session
For layered entanglements. Structural belief collapse & signal reroute.
£222
All clarity sessions are for adults 18+.
Thank you for booking
With me
Everything starts and ends with you
Habanero Insights Terms & Booking Policy
Age
By booking I confirm that I am 18+
Service Nature
These sessions offer emotional clarity, presence, and grounded conversation. This is not therapy. I do not diagnose, treat, or offer medical advice. What I offer is insight, calm, and truth — not fantasy, roleplay, or performance.
Confidentiality
Everything shared remains private. Unless risk of harm is disclosed, nothing is shared.
Payment & Bookings
All payments through Stripe/TidyCal are final. Booking is confirmed only once payment is processed.
Cancellation & Rescheduling
Please cancel or reschedule at least 24 hrs in advance. No refunds within 24 hrs. Thus far, refunds outside that include a 5% processing fee.
Emotional Resposibility
You consent to direct, challenging inquiry. While insights may feel intense, emotional outcomes are your own process.Any decisions or actions you take after the session are solely your responsibility. Habanero Insights accepts no liability for outcomes resulting from personal choices.
Insurance & Professional Integrity
I hold Professional Indemnity and Public Liability insurance appropriate to clarity work. This is not therapy, and I am not a therapist.
Scope & Limitations
We do not diagnose, treat, or offer medical advice. If your needs are clinical, I will refer you to a specialist.
Privacy
Your email and messaging info will only be used for session-related purposes and not sold or shared.
Jurisdiction
These sessions are provided from the United Kingdom and governed by UK law. It is the responsibility of the client to ensure participation is permitted under their local laws.
All clarity sessions are for adults 18+.
By booking, you agree to the Terms & Conditions.